AIO husband (44m) started sending me facetiousness messages

When my husband (44m) and I (42f) are not getting along , he started sending me these messages. They look nice but he is actually saying it as if I'm not that already. He's says he's "speaking it into existence" sort of thing. He's admitted that he's just pretending I am all these things.. I am beyond pissed everytine I get one of these and he continues to tell me I'm mad at him for being nice .. am I reading these wrong? How should I be taking them?