Is this splitting,too

My boyfriend,

is giving all his " dysfunctional" sides to me. Saying he is not capable of showing Love to me the way i deserve it. Hot and cold, tendency to cold. No initmacy anymore, also. But- when it comes to his Brother and his wife. He is fun, Giving and Caring. So- how should i handle this?

Thank you for your advice- i dond't know what to think about this anymore.