🚨🚨Should I text her this?🚨🚨
After 3 months of NC, my ex (the dumper) reached out and said she had been thinking a lot about me and wishes to be friends. Wondering if I should send this text:
“Hey. Unfortunately me moving from a romantic relationship to a platonic relationship is not likely to happen any time soon, if at all. It’s just not something I am willing to subject myself to. My mental health and well being are far more important to me. I would rather continue to become used to your absence than continually frustrated with your presence. If you ever wanted to talk about our relationship in any capacity, you should let me know, as that is a conversation I may be willing to have. I have done a lot of self reflection and growth these past few months and while I don’t want to close the door forever, right now I am not willing to remain friends with someone who was so willing to walk away from the love I had to offer. I wish you all the best. I really do hope you achieve all the things you want in life. I regret that I won't get a chance to see it for myself someday. Take care.”
UPDATE: Thanks everyone for all the advice and comments. I really appreciate it. I haven’t sent the text yet. If I do decide to respond to her, I definitely won’t be sending the above text. Thanks y’all