I feel like I really messed up

Proposing to my girlfriend on Sunday. Just received pictures from my jeweler and I feel like the Diamond is too big 😞. I think my gf will like it anyways but that’s just bc she’s amazing. I feel like it’s giving “loud”, “too much”, and “gaudy”. I’m pretty bummed because I wanted this to be the most special part of everything.

It’s a 3.55ct D VS1 Lab Grown