My mother wants to know me NOW
Was no contact with my mom for 5 years then I found out she had heart failure and I’m not heartless (no pun intended) I gave her another chance.
In 6 months: * She visited me in the state I live in, saw my life and adopted my interests as her personality. I love books, jazz and wine nothing quirky. *The day of my birthday she decided to start planning her own birthday party in June. *For her birthday she decided she would be building a library in her home, her friends would gift her books and she had dinner at a jazz club. *She had a saxophonist serenade her at her birthday and her signature drink was some cheap sangria… (She doesn’t even drink) *She’s also dating a 48 year old RAPPER who is in a gang and sales drugs.
I end up deciding I will go low contact so that I can atleast know about her health. She’s sending me selfies and talking all about herself. In this time I was moving to a whole new apartment and I got a new job… She never asked about any of it but was as usual talking all about herself.
I would just thumbs up or heart the selfies, at one point she texted me “I lost 16 pounds”??? I just responded good for you, but that was enough she then sent me this long message about how her rapper boyfriend has a degree in “music” and she bets most my friends don’t…Said “He could’ve judged you for your confusing lifestyle but he didn’t. So you shouldn’t judge his” Also compared my “lifestyle” (Being a lesbian) to her bf being and criminal “lifestyle”…
Then he ghosted her when she was having OPEN HEART SURGERY and now she’s pleading for me again.
Was no contact with my mom for 5 years then I found out she had heart failure and I’m not heartless (no pun intended) I gave her another chance.
In 6 months: * She visited me in the state I live in, saw my life and adopted my interests as her personality. I love books, jazz and wine nothing quirky. *The day of my birthday she decided to start planning her own birthday party in June. *For her birthday she decided she would be building a library in her home, her friends would gift her books and she had dinner at a jazz club. *She had a saxophonist serenade her at her birthday and her signature drink was some cheap sangria… (She doesn’t even drink) *She’s also dating a 48 year old RAPPER who is in a gang and sales drugs.
I end up deciding I will go low contact so that I can atleast know about her health. She’s sending me selfies and talking all about herself. In this time I was moving to a whole new apartment and I got a new job… She never asked about any of it but was as usual talking all about herself.
I would just thumbs up or heart the selfies, at one point she texted me “I lost 16 pounds”??? I just responded good for you, but that was enough she then sent me this long message about how her rapper boyfriend has a degree in “music” and she bets most my friends don’t…Said “He could’ve judged you for your confusing lifestyle but he didn’t. So you shouldn’t judge his” Also compared my “lifestyle” (Being a lesbian) to her bf being and criminal “lifestyle”…
Then he ghosted her when she was having OPEN HEART SURGERY and now she’s pleading for me again.