Had my first ENM Experience

Me (25M) and my Partner (23F) have recently decided to open up our relationship, its been something we've talked about for quite a while and have finally decided recently to go ahead with due to some practical issues of being stuck kinda far from each other and also we went to a "swingers" club and were very intrigued in a lifestyle we didn't even really know existed.

We agreed on a "no one really close/you have a history with, don't do it super regularly/replace each other with fwbs" kinda policy, asking is only really necessary if its something super different like she wanted to go to a swinger club with our friend in the other country which I was fine with.

Either way, I found it a little hard to find someone who was into having something more casual but accidentally did in an old co-worker A (F21) after explaining the whole concept, while hanging out as we often do. She was very curious in the whole thing and eventually asked if I wanted to try with her, we then proceeded to have some of the wildest sex I've had in a while, all nighter.

This was a few days ago and we're already figuring out the next one, this time with a bit more planning I guess, definitely awakened something in me and am even more excited for my Partner to get back but in the mean time at least I have a playmate.