Communication and prayer troubles

Ok so I’ve been communicating to the gods via oracle/tarot cards mostly - occasionally I’ll do some free writing, but that rarely feels like it works for me - but I wanna do something more. I’m also having trouble with communicating via prayer; I just feel like I don’t know what to tell them, or if I should even bother telling them things when I don’t have anything to offer or ask/thank them for. And I wanna do more, ya know?
So if anyone has any “casual” divination/communication methods to share, I’d really appreciate it!