Auto lights and auto wipers?

Two related questions: any way to force auto lights to always turn on when wipers are on? During the day, my auto lights will not turn on when wipers (any setting) are turned on, and I have to remember to switch them manually on.

Any way to have intermittent wipers not using the auto “feature” at all? I find the automatic setting works very poorly, and would love the “dumb” (but much better) intermittent style of the SE trim.

Thanks!