My anxious attachment and long distance relationship
I’m anxiously attached and in a long distance relationship. Should I end it?
I(28f) have been with my boyfriend (33m) for 2.5 years long distance until I moved to his state 1 year ago for law school, but I go to school like 5 hours away from him.
Work has been super busy for him and I’m in the middle of finals. My anxious attachment is triggered because we haven’t really had any quality time together lately. And I’m realizing it is one of my needs.
I’m supposed to move to his city next summer, which I’m hoping it will help, so but I don’t know if I’ll last that long. I’m busy and he’s busy, and it’s shitty because I just want to hang out with him. But I’m worried that he won’t be able to fulfill my emotional needs.
I really do love him and don’t want it to end. But at the same time, the anxiety is getting to me.
Should I focus on healing myself or just end it?