My husband ate the mac n cheese

Update: Thank you all for the advice. We have spoken and he says he’ll make me a new batch. I’ll see if he does it but he did get defensive. I’m going to explore him showing signs of an ED, as this is a possibility I’ve never really considered.

A small group of friends and I decided to throw a Thanksgiving Potluck this past Saturday. My husband M29 and I F26 decided on baked Mac and cheese, Tofurky, and blueberry cobbler for our meals to take to the party. We made everything from scratch except for the tofurkey (we tried, it was a disaster). For the Mac n cheese I made enough for 2 portions, one to bring to the potluck and the other to keep at home. The night was a success and we even had enough food left over to give away to friends.

I wake up this morning ready to eat some leftovers. Come to find out my husband ate all the Mac n cheese. All of it. Didn’t even leave me a scrap. It’s my favorite part of the meal and he knows that and he just ate all of it knowing we didn’t bring extra from the party since I made an extra dish for just the two of us.

Petty to get upset about, but the real issue is that he does this all the time. He has no self control. I will buy a tub of ice cream, he’ll eat it all in a day and a half and will literally leave me a spoon full. He will eat things I buy specifically for myself and won’t tell me about it and won’t replace it. I can’t eat as fast as he does but it’s starting to get really frustrating. I’m doing almost all the cooking, laundry, cleaning, grocery shopping etc and he can’t even leave me some Mac n cheese? Sometimes it feels like I have a college roommate more than a partner. I can’t tell if I’m over reacting but I’m really mad right now. The lack of restraint is just such a turn off for me, a new ick if you will. I don’t even know how to go about talking about how sad this made me.

PS It was ONLY the Mac n cheese. He didn’t eat anything else.