I hate sleeping with my girlfriend

My girlfriend snores every night. I have to shove her to get her to stop. I have to shove her because she literally stops breathing and she wakes up almost every time and has to catch her breath before passing out again in 2 seconds. She’s overweight and this is why she snores. I haven’t said anything, so I don’t know that she quite understands stands that having extra weight on you makes you snore. She knows it’s a problem because I complain about it every night. I already have bad insomnia and it certainly doesn’t get better having to deal with her. I toss and turn every night for hours. It’s 5 in the morning and I hit the pillow at midnight. I’m just sick of hearing her snore and having to shove her ass awake just for her to mutter sorry and pass out again and repeat the same process. I usually either drink myself to sleep, pop a few muscle relaxers (which doesn’t seem to work anymore), or take some Xanax(which also doesn’t work much anymore). I’m sick of having to rely on drugs and alcohol to put my ass to sleep and have a fucked up sleep schedule. Sleeping in a different room or on the couch is not an option because we live with roommates.

Edit. Yes I know all about sleep apnea and it’s symptoms. The only reason I mentioned the her weight is because anytime I’ve witnessed or hear about sleep apnea is from somebody fat. My dad has it, I had a sleep study as a kid and got a pallet expander because they said that would be better than giving a 6 year old a cpap, and I haven’t had any problems. I should have put that we have talked about sleep apnea and having her do a sleep study. Everything is just a matter of money and time. We don’t have our own place, we’re saving to move out, shit keeps happening to my car and I keep throwing money at it, I’m in a legal dispute with my parents, she’s paying for braces and college and her job doesn’t give her hardly any hours. My parents are bad news and hers aren’t financially well off to help us. Main reason for posting is stress about all this crap and going to sleep at night I can’t even get a peaceful send off to my day.

Another edit. We also sleep on a mattress pad on the floor. Yea, our situation isn’t great. We’ll be getting an actual bed in a few weeks. It’s comfortable for the most part, but not sure if this is a contributing factor to the sleep apnea because she also has these problems on a normal mattress too. And no, as much as you dramatic losers want to put words in my mouth, I do not hate her I do not resent her nor do I want this relationship to end, but people will always jump to that same conclusion “oh no he said something negative about his partner. Do YoU eVeN lOvE hEr??”

Last edit just to address the idiots again. No shit I have tried earplugs, they do not work. Not with how loud she’s snoring. I need white noise to sleep and with earplugs that’s not happening, headphones aren’t good because I’m a side sleeper. When I wake her up I tell her to roll onto her side. “sLeEp In AnOtHeR rOoM”, read the whole post before commenting. My roommates all have different schedules and will be out in the living room throughout the night. “Wah wah op talks so bad about his gf” why, because I said she’s overweight and snores? You people are the same ones who would cry and flop on the floor god forbid your partner criticizes you. And of course y’all wanna act like I’m some drug addicted alcoholic. The pills I take I only ever take a couple maybe a couple times a week, I drink alcohol very rarely maybe a couple times a month and only for special occasions and when I have left over, I use that for sleep. The Xanax I haven’t taken in months.