Fellow Bottoms what is the most annoying thing to you about preparing for a hook up?

As the title says. For me it would have to be the whole douching process itself. It's not fun to do and it often times doesn't get everything as clean as I would like. And shaving as well, I just can't seem to find a good way to get all the hair off unless I actually use hair removal cream. Which as anyone who has done so can tell you, is not a fun or enjoyable process to go through.