How are your marriages surviving after having kids

We’re first time parents to our 10.5 month old son, and I feel like our marriage will not survive much longer. My husband is a brilliant dad, I cannot fault him at all and he does so much around the house too, but it’s like he’s forgotten he’s also my husband. I don’t feel loved or seen at all. We’re from two different cultures (I’m Australian and he’s SE Asian) so communication is a challenge as it is. We’ve restarted therapy recently but honestly I don’t know if it’s going to make a difference. We’ve totally lost our way and I’m at such a loss on how to make this work 😞