I'm really confused...can you help me figure out what's going on? I don't know much about the church's view of such things...

A little background...I am the other man so I'm not sure if I fit here or not. I realize what happened between the married LDS woman (38) at the time and myself took two to tango and I am also at fault. I feel awful for what happened and the stress that it placed on her marriage. Here's where I'm struggling...she is my kid's teacher so we cross paths from time to time. Our intense emotional affair ended approximately 7 months ago and I have not heard from her since that time aside from the occasional "hi" at the school. The last time we spoke was the last week of November, small chit chat during an event. I have not attempted to reach out to her in any way since the affair ended per her wishes as she chose to try to work on her marriage after telling him everything and him agreeing to counseling for the first time after many attempts.

Where I'm struggling is here: since the last week of November when we last spoke, something has apparently changed and I don't understand it. It makes me feel like a monster. Again, I realize I took part in this so there is culpability on my end too so maybe I'm right to feel like a monster and should be treated as such. As an example of what has changed, there was another event recently and she actively avoided me. Avoided being within 5 feet of me. As soon as I arrived she left. As she was coming back and noticed that I was still in the classroom waiting for my kid's presentation to end, she ducked into another classroom and didn't emerge until she saw me leave. Is this due to lingering feelings on her part when she sees me? Is this because of some counseling received from the Bishop? Has she been forbade to speak to/look at/interact with me in any way?

I truly want her to be happy and would do anything to make her more comfortable but I can't ask her what she needs from me. Being avoided like this is killing me which isn't the point of this post. I'm not trying to interact because it's clear she doesn't want that but knowing that I meant something to someone 7 months ago and now I'm being avoided like the plague is killing me. Selfish, I know, you don't have to tell me that. Anyway...looking for opinions on what is going on, I just don't understand. I know she was talking to her Bishop and I was told she could no longer participate in the Sacrament or enter the Temple...although I don't know if these restrictions are still in place. I'm trying to figure out why there seems to have been a seismic shift in her behavior toward me. Thank you for any help you can provide.