Bf told me his body count..I was shocked

19m) and him also 19m)

We've not been dating for Long at all and are in the stages of truly getting to know each other even more.

We were calling like we usually are and then we sort of got on the topic of s*x. He's had 4 relationships before and so had I. The difference is ,is that I'm a virgin and he's not.

So curious me asked his body count. I was problem thinking maybe 7 or something right. Till he told me..his body count was between 28/29.

I mean ,woah it definitely left me quite speechless. I obviously love him but it also just shocked me. J don't tend to care about body count but..I mean this is obviously quite high. It just gives off fuck boy vibes?

Just had to get this off my chest.

Update: I asked him once again, if he really slept with 28/29 people and if he truly has not tested for it.

He said he actually did get tested not long ago and he will test again soon. Just kinda odd how he changed his answer. But I will believe him. But I will make sure that he gets tested before me and him do anything.

Thanks all for the replies ,j really appreciate all of it. Hookup culture is indeed crazy in the gay community.

Second update:

He ended up letting someone else kiss him on the lips. Then didn't apologize for it.

When we called I felt insecure about a pic and he told me to send it cause he loves me either way. I send it and he said "ur fine" so I got a little bit pissed at that, and told him if he didn't find me attractive he can leave. To which he misunderstood, so I told him again twice what I meant.

Then he ended the call ,tried k*lling himself cause he misunderstood.

Then proceeds to blame it all on me.

After that ,I tried breaking up with him but then came back cause I felt guilty and he kept saying "our parents love each other and like we have such a good relationship, and I really wanna try this with you"

Then next morning not even a day has passed and dude sends me a s*xual video of his pp.

So I ended things right there and there....truly I wish this was the end of it ,but it's not.

....after we broke up he became very obsessive. Stalked me on Facebook, and send a friend request to my mom ,to which he tried to deny it. But then admitted to it. He also asked me out for valentine today and I just had enough, I already told him to move on from me ,which he refused to do so. Then I told him I will block him everywhere ,to which he proceeded to say I was selfish for that.

He then sends me a paragraph:

No I’m not controlling you if you wanna burn down every bridge we made that’s fine because I have the kitchen to keep me going and when you see me on the TV sorry to say this but I hope you finally regret breaking up with me and breaking my heart goodbye (my name) it was loving bless wonderful experience you was my everything but I’m moving on if you don’t wanna talk to me that’s fine but from now on I’m not gonna show kindness to you I’m gonna be cold. Hopefully you understand. I need to go to my job. And work 12 hours. Putting that restaurant on the map.

What i send back to him:

You fucked it up for yourself, not me. I loved you with all my heart and I always loved your perfections and imperfection. But I cannot believe that I have to stand up for myself like this. Calling me selfish because ur being pushy with still loving me, and acting like nothing happend? How selfish can you be yourself. If I do end up seeing you on TV, good for you, and i won't regret my decisions at all. Maybe you will regret yours when I'm happy with the things in life ,I don't need social media or loads of people to love me or see me on a screen to regret something. Goodbye