Looking for a poem I read once

I used to have a book of poetry given to me by a teacher in elementary school. I read it as I grew up and there was a beautiful poem in it about loving two men. It spoke about the man that loves you and the man you love and goes onto to poetically explain the different nuances and then the poem ends with it saying something basically like: if you’re lucky the man you love and the man that loves you are one in the same. Sorry if this is super vague, it’s haunted me ever since I lost that poetry anthology. Also would love to find that book as well.